Flipping channels last night, apparently
Channel 27 in Madison is doing a bit of an expose on the relationship between the area’s practicing homosexuals and their respective churches. Some are hurt because they “aren’t accepted,” etc.
Mainstream Christian thought is that homosexual acts are morally wrong, though the dignity of the practicer remains, and therefore must be loved and embraced always. The act is likened to any other sin (ought to be remedied), the actor to any other sinner (in need of God’s grace, a work in progress). Whether one agrees with that or not, it’s not going to jive well when:
a.) the issue at hand, sexuality, is much more closely aligned with human nature than, say, drinking or gambling habits, and,
b.) those who practice homosexuality tend to self-identify as a homosexual person.
I can’t stress enough the damage that the second one has on meaningful dialogue. And, of course, without meaningful dialogue, we’re going to have churches that hurt their own flock rather than pastor it, and hurt feelings on the side of the congregation. In essence, we’re going to have the fuel of the homophobic fire.
One would not hear someone say “I am a drug addict,” without an understanding that either:
a.) they really mean “I’m working on fixing an old drug problem,” or
b.) “I currently do drugs” though my identity is not defined by drug use.
And, as either of those tenets are a given, the potential for dialogue is not destroyed. Either the first is true, in which case the user recognizes a problem that warrants fixing. Or the second is true, in which case the potential end of drug use does not equate to the end of the person entirely.
The homosexual community replaces both tenets with:
a.) My existence is defined by the fact that I do what I do with members of my own sex, and
b.) If you’re going to love and accept me, you have to love and accept that I do what I do with members of my own sex.
Translation -- we can’t talk about that thing you do over there, and I have to deal with it. Dialogue: over.
Currently, almost all homosexual chatter today is centered around to what extent ought society embrace those with homosexual inclinations. Wrong discussion. The end of homophobia will not happen whilst the debate centers on anything besides something along the lines of the existence of natural law, its potential application to sexual practice, and the (im)morality of said practice.
Either the homosexual community or mainstream Christianity is wrong on that one. The end of that debate will certainly spawn a new peaceful era between the two, such that Channel 27 can go back to reporting on other
really important things.